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š± Experiment Iām relearning
Life experiment. Beastie Boys chemistry. Design.
Hereās your 3 insights in 3 minutes.
š« Relearning
At some point in adulthood, we discover thereās no syllabus for the real worldā¦
However school trained us for a life of clear metrics: get an A, pass the class, advance a grade.
Performance was measured by grades and progress was neatly defined by graduations.
But then life happens.
Suddenly, thereās no syllabus. No report card. No teacher saying "you passed."
Just a nagging voice questioning "could I be doing better?"
Joe Hudson wisely puts it:
I used to think this left us with two choices: create new grades or abandon them entirely. I thought external comparison is bad and internal validation was the only way.
But I've since realized something deeper.
That we're all taking different classes on entirely different grading scales. So perhaps the better measure is the feeling we have each night before crawling into bed. I personally love the slight exhaustion feeling that I pushed myself and am proud of that day.
I also realize this will likely change. And that no perfect score exists. Just daily experiments and the knowing that tomorrow is a fresh new start.
The real freedom isn't in finding the perfect grading scale, but in experiments we feel excited to wake up and tinker with.
š„ Homies
August of 1994 the Beastie Boys were on the cover of Rolling Stone.
I randomly found the article in a waiting room and was deeply drawn to their chemistry.
āItās just such cool chemistry between the three of us. I donāt even completely understand how it all interconnects. Itās just that the three of us together is much stronger than any one of us working individually. Weāve been together for so long and care about each other so much, itās really like brothers.ā
Find your people.
šØ Life Design
If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.
Salud,
Mitchell