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🌱 Resonance & Evidence: my #1 framework (here's why + how to use it)

500 new subs. Belief. Jay-Z.

Quick welcome to the 579 new people that joined this week. đź‘‹

(Apparently another newsletter recommended mine. Whoever you are, thanks!)

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  • Make better decisions

  • Build deeper awareness

  • See your life or business more clearly

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đź§  Belief Follows Experience 

This idea has been stuck in my head all week:

You don’t think your way to new beliefs. You experience your way to them. 

“You think that to change your beliefs, you have to adopt a new line of thinking, rather than seek experiences that make that thinking self-evident. A belief is what you know to be true because experience has made it evident to you.

If you want to change your life, change your beliefs.

If you want to change your beliefs, go out and have experiences that make them real to you. Not the opposite way around.”

- Brianna Wiest, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think

Want to change your life? Change your beliefs. 

Want to change your beliefs? Change your experiences.

🌎 Jay-Z’s London Experience 

At 19, Jay-Z followed his mentor Jaz-O to London.

It was his first time in a real studio. First time in a luxury apartment. First time seeing what a different future could look like.

“I love New York more than probably anything else … but I’m thankful that I got away at a young age to see some of the world outside of Marcy. It opened my perspective on a lot of things...”

Jay-Z, Decoded

Rappers Jaz-O and Jay-Z in 1989

World travel can have this effect on people. 

“What I got from being out of the country was a chance to really see myself and my world differently. I could see the distance I’d traveled, in every sense, and that I had in me the ability to go further.”

But it wasn’t just eye-opening. It was life-saving.

"During that time, there was a secret indictment ... and they swept up and grabbed up 30 of my friends -- everyone got locked up and went to jail. One of my closest friends went to jail for 11 years, a guy I was [selling drugs] with every day."

Jay-Z, Decoded

To me it comes down to trusting what resonates.

When something tugs at you — an invite, a city, a moment. Trust it. 

I now have experienced this enough in my own life to believe it to be true. 

And tons of others. (Maybe another big one coming soon.)

Last year I called this magnitude and latitude

But today, I’d shift the language.

I’m calling it: Resonance & Evidence.

đź§­ Resonance = The internal pull. The gut feeling you don’t need to explain because it just feels right.

đź§Ş Evidence = The real-world proof. The experiences that reshape what you believe is possible.

Resonance gives you the pull.
Evidence gives you the proof.

One guides you. The other grounds you.

Yet having just one without the other leaves you stuck.

You can resonate deeply with something, but without taking action and building evidence, you stay in theory.

Or you can collect evidence (promotions, praise, approval) but if it doesn’t resonate it slowly drains your tank.

Sometimes the most resonant move isn’t to start something new… but to stop something that no longer fits.(Quit a job, end a relationship, fire a client.)

That single choice can create space — mentally, emotionally, practically — for something more aligned to emerge.

Which kicks off the compounding effect:

  • The more resonance you feel, the easier it is to build evidence

  • The more evidence you build, the easier it is to follow more resonance

That’s how you create space and momentum.

Don’t overthink the whole path. Just take the next right step.

And let resonance + evidence do the rest.

đź‘€ New Eyes

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.”

- Marcel Proust

Salud,
Mitchell